But perhaps the best words of wisdom come from Anne Gilberto of East Boston, who's been married to Steve for more than 50 years. In that time, they've reached a form of compromise that not only gets things done but also lets them both take satisfaction in having had their own way. The secret to their long marriage, say Anne, is this: 'I always give him the last word. I tell him what to do, and he says, 'Yes, ma'am. .Christine Schultz
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Its not important who "gives" you the last word, it is more important who has the last word in the relationship. It's easy to see when this is not the case. The person in a relationship who loses the last word in the relationship usually finds themselves in a never ending cycle of trying to gain control. When you put yourself in a position where you don't have the last word in your relationship, then you will find that your partner will not be happy and that things will not be going well for you and your relationship.
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